Waiting Practicum: Enhancing Communication with Young Language Learners

Waiting patiently can be a transformative skill when communicating with our children, especially those navigating communication challenges. It's about fostering an environment where kids feel heard, valued, and encouraged to express themselves at their own pace. Here are some practical strategies to incorporate waiting into interactions with young language learners:

1. Lean In: One of the simplest yet most effective strategies is to lean in physically and emotionally. By leaning towards your child, whether it's sitting on the edge of your chair or moving closer during a conversation, you signal your interest and attentiveness. This subtle gesture validates their messages and establishes a deeper connection, reinforcing the importance of their thoughts and feelings.

2. Get on Your Kid's Level: Meeting your child at eye level, whether by sitting on the floor, pulling up a chair, or snuggling together on the couch, enhances face-to-face interaction. Face-to-face communication adds vitality and context to conversations, making them more engaging and joyful. It's not just about eye contact; it's about being fully present and tuned into their world, fostering a supportive environment for communication to flourish.

3. Count in Your Head: After making a comment, asking a question, or observing something, practice counting silently to 5 or 6. This brief pause allows children extra processing time to formulate their responses. It encourages them to access their vocabulary, organize their thoughts, and choose how to express themselves, whether verbally or through non-verbal cues. This silent space is instrumental in nurturing effective communication exchanges.

4. Practice Presence: Letting children know that their time with you is invaluable creates a profound impact on engagement and language development. It involves setting aside distractions like phones or computers and immersing yourself fully in their interests and activities. Even dedicating just 10 minutes a day, as long as those 10 minutes are fully focused on mutual play and communication, can strengthen your bond, enhance their language learning experience, and deepen your mutual understanding.

Incorporating these strategies into your interactions with young language learners not only enhances communication skills but also nurtures a supportive and trusting relationship. Remember, this Waiting Practicum is about creating an environment where children feel empowered to express themselves authentically, at their own pace, and in their own unique way. By practicing patience and presence, you're fostering a foundation for lifelong communication success.